Monday, April 7, 2025

Be the one who says no (and my trip to Hortlandia)

I intended today's post to be about the Hardy Plant Society of Oregon's spring plant sale, Hortlandia, which took place last weekend. I'll give a recap of that event below, but first I want to write about something else. 

It's been all plants all the time here since last November 6th, when I "paused" to share my pre-election anxiety and then ask, WTF? The continued plant focus hasn't been because I'm unaware of the horrible acts this President and his cadre of loyal followers are committing, but because I know those of us who care deeply also need to tend to our mental health. Plants, gardens, and nature are key in that for me, and if you're reading probably for you too. However there's something I want to share. 

When I flew out of Portland recently (headed to Sacramento and the Bay Area Garden Extravaganza) I noticed the now ubiquitous sign at the airport's TSA security checkpoint notifying fliers of their right to opt out of the facial recognition software. While the software is promoted as a quick and easy way to verify identity prior to boarding an airplane (don't get me wrong, airport security is very important), there are those who've raised concerns, chief among them that facial recognition software creates the potential for mass surveillance, which could restrict individual freedom (there is also a strong potential for racial bias). While I was mulling over whether or not to comply—would it really matter? I've participated the last few times I've flown, I didn't want to cause any delays and inconvenience the people behind me in line—the person two in front of me stated she wanted to opt out, and then so did her companion. Emboldened by their choice, and the fact the TSA agent wasn't slowed down, I too opted out, as did the person behind me, and the next, and the next, and the next. I eventually stopped paying attention and hurried on to the line for luggage scanning, but I can't stop thinking about how that one person saying no made it so much easier for the rest of us to say no. 

Be the one who says no.

Will Cory Booker's record setting 25-hour speech on the senate floor change anything? Not by itself. But what he did makes it easier for the next legislator to stand up and say "no, what is happening is wrong," and then the one after that, and the one after that. Another wildly successful moment was last weekend's huge Hands Off! protest. The people are unhappy, we are not okay with what's happening to our country, and the people said NO!

Be the one who says no. Maybe it will be just a small thing, maybe it will be a small thing that turns into a big thing and protects someone in a vulnerable situation. Taking care of each other makes all the difference right now. On my flight home I opted out as well. I didn't stick around to hear what happened behind me, but the person who had gone before me turned around and asked what opting out entailed. We had a good conversation.

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On to Hortlandia! I signed up to volunteer for load-in and set-up on Friday afternoon, that meant I got to check in nurseries when they arrived, and point them to their space on the floor (below, Secret Garden Growers).

Watching them all hustle I couldn't help but think (again) about how hard nursery people work. They loaded up the plants to bring them to the show, drove for miles, unloaded the plants, set up their booths and then were all smiles at 5pm when the shoppers were allowed in. That's 3 hours of answering questions and processing payments after already working a full day of physical labor (on cement floors!). Then, they were back the next morning before 9am to work another day and then break it down and load out (below, Out in the Garden Nursery

Little Prince plants, color!

Molly and her Rancho Cacto put together a great display...

I hope lots of people bought a bean fern! I really wanted to grab another, but I'm on a budget and didn't "need" another one.

Pyrrosia lingua 'Cristata'

Dan Hinkley (Windcliff) drove all the way down from Indianola, WA, for the event.

Speaking of things I wanted to buy, he brought some fine looking Pleopeltis lepidopteris 'Morro dos Conventos' ($45, too rich for me).

The Sebright Gardens booth is a treasure hunt. 

Rather than grouping like items together, they mix it all up and you have to look at every single plant to make sure you're not missing anything. I found a sweet fern in the mix... (more info below).

The deal of the show was at Rita Lee's booth.

This large Aloe erinacea was going for just $23! I tried to sell it to a couple of friends (yes I wanted it, but I already have one about this same size [which I paid more for!] and didn't "need" another) but I have no idea who ended up with it, it was gone quickly.

Love the blooms on their Rebutia albiflora.
I'm trying to be better about remembering to take people photos. On the left and sporting a fabulous dandelion shirt (does that make him a dandy?) is none other than Jerry Weiland, on the right, Theo Margelony not wearing a fuchsia shirt but looking happy to be there.

Jerry even shared his coordinated socks!

Ann Amato and Jason Chen were also smiles...

I was happy to see a choice Rhododendron stenopetalum 'Linearifolium' on offer, such a good plant.

I scanned the small plant offerings at the Illahe booth twice and still managed to miss their Pellaea atropurpurea, but Ann went home with a pair (at least a friend got them).

So here's my small but spectacular haul, just 4 plants!

The fern came from Sebright, the colorful fronds were poking through the surrounding plants and so I had to dig to see what they belonged to...

Parablechnum wattsii, aka Blechnum wattsii, aka hard water fern.

From the Cistus booth I grabbed a small Lupinus albifrons, aka silver lupine. This plant is tricky, but I'm hoping it will live for at least a season, maybe even two.

The Windsciff booth is where I found this Paris thibetica, "One of the most garden worthy of all Paris species, this with elegant whorls of narrow foliage atop 15" stems above which rise richly understated flowers of green sepals and golden thread-like petals. Quick to establish and multiply in woodland conditions. From Yunnan, 1996."

Here's one a little further along opening up, and click here to see a great photo on the Far Reaches Farm website.

Last summer when the Fling visited Windcliff I bought a couple Pseudopanax crassifolius, but not a P. ferox. Since there were so many to chose from here (and only $7!) I went ahead and got one (photo credit to Mary DeNoyer who let me use her photo since I neglected to snap one).

This small pot had three seedlings in it, how could I say no?

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36 comments:

  1. Love this, love it all, Loree. I agree, be the one to say NO. As we prepare to board a plane today, I am going to be that one. I share your sentiments whole-heartedly. And gardens are there for us to recharge our batteries so we can carry on. And great haul, great to see familiar faces (JERRY...THE SHIRT! LOOVE!!). By the way I have another Lupinus albifrons for you.

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    1. I will definitely take you up on the Lupinus albifrons offer! (perhaps at the Dirty Diggers event?) I hope guys have a magnificent time on your adventure, I look forward to photos, many photos please!

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    2. Slowly, but surely, I am incorporating more floral fabulousness into my wardrobe!

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  2. Just say no: I loved everything you said. I'll opt out of facial recognition the next time I fly. The protests on Saturday were so well attended, I'm beginning to feel a little more hopeful.

    Hortlandia: So many cool things to look at and lust over. Pseudopanax ferox for $7? I would have snapped up three even though I already have one.

    But even more important than the plants are the people. You have such a great sense of community in Portland!

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  3. Thank you for this encouraging article. It is so important to use whatever platforms we have to share our thoughts about what is going on. Friends and plants help take the sting out of the terrible things happening every day.

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    1. I am so thankful we're headed into sunnier, warmer days here in my part of the world. If this was all happening in the wintertime it would be so much worse for my mental state.

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  4. Thank you so much for this. All of it.

    I remember your 2025 election era post as being a rare breath of fresh air, a place for similarly minded folks to grieve and make space for each other.

    And your posts since then…. Acknowledging the healing power of gardening, of continuity, of knowing that real life—beloved plants and nature—are still doing their thing.

    But, yes, still… All the awfulness it is still there. The horror. The sadness. Thanks for the reminder that we can (and should) say no. That we can (and should) make space for other people to say no.

    Thanks so much!

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    1. Thank you for commenting Corrie, and your encouraging words.

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  5. Thanks for your opening statement, Loree! Back in 2017, a lot of people felt empowered to jump on board to attend one of the many Women's Marches held across the country. With Trump 2.0, I encountered pessimism, fatalism, and even a level of paranoia associated with the discussion of the upcoming Hands Off rallies even though the ramifications of 2.0 are arguably 10X greater or worse. I entirely agree that we all have some degree of influence we can and should exercise in helping our fellow Americans over whatever reluctance or uncertainty they're feeling because, in the end, we need a groundswell to make a difference and that push must continue until there's an impact. The mid-term elections are just 2 years away and, while I hope to see a backlash before then, it's imperative that we see a clear shift by that time before our democratic systems collapse. I was buoyed by the fact that there were reportedly 100 rallies in different parts of SoCal alone and that the South Bay event I attended brought in 7500 people into a relatively small venue. It gave me hope.

    As to Hortlandia, thanks for sharing the event. I'll get up there someday!

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    1. Indeed, we must continue to share our concerns and continue to be vocal (but not violent). As for Hortlandia it would be wonderful for you to attend!

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  6. Since last November I just want to burrow and wait four years before emerging... there's so little I can control. That's why I fully appreciate your prologue for today's post: very well put, every word resonates with me. Thank you!
    Excellent to see Jerry Weiland, who I believe was voted best dressed during the Fling, is carrying on with another awesome shirt (and socks!).
    Chavli

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    1. I understand your desire to hibernate, there's just so much bad news a person can take. I didn't hear that about Jerry (or anything about a vote), but it definitely rings true, he's got style!

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  7. Thank you Loree.

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  8. Driving from LA to Oregon on 101N there were many protests in the small coastal towns. We waved and honked enthusiastically, it was a wonderful sight. Of course not every small town has a newspaper anymore to document this history, but at least there is a groundswell forming.

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    1. Your comment reminds me of the time and friend and I were driving back to Seattle from Vancouver, BC on the 4th of July. It seemed like every small community we passed through waited to set off their fireworks until we were passing thru, it was amazing.

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  9. I agree with everyone else about this post, Loree. Don't be afraid to say no. I usually am afraid truthfully, but I am learning the older I get! I also agree wholeheartedly with your description of the work that nursery people do. We just had our annual Central Arizona Cactus and Succulent Sale at the Desert Botanical Garden in Phoenix. I have been thinking about the 22 vendors and the tremendous work for them, as you described so well. Luckily, the weather was good this year (not too hot or rainy), and the 3-day event was a success for them. But, boy, they deserve it!

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    1. Thanks for sharing that Nancy, you're in a very different part of the world from where I am, saying no there would be harder because you just don't know how the people around you will react. Also thanks for sharing your glimpse into the nursery world. I wish I could have been there!

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  10. All we hear from Down Under is about how each day seems to bring another act designed to erode your country’s institutions and social fabric. Your blog and the comments tell me quite a different story - one of resistance. As always, gardening and gardeners are the glimmers that we can look forward to. Love your blog and especially this post. Great plant haul!

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    1. Thanks for reading and commenting. I hope the world knows there are significant portions of our population who are not okay with what is happening.

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  11. A plethora or riches. I admire your restraint. I think I would have caved for the Lepidoptolis fern. Gorgeous! I picked up plants at the NW show from Rita Lee and from Rancho Cacto. They both had an incredible selection. Would have brought more home if I could have.

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    1. My not caving was only because I already have that fern. If it was the first one I ever saw I am sure I would have grabbed it fast. I carried a rhipsalis around Rita Lee's booth for quite awhile, in the end I talked myself out of it. Damn budget.

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  12. Agree with your sentiment, and I like the reminder to speak our mind. This event looks so wonderful, I wish I had flown in for it. You brought home a great haul!

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    1. Next year! It's always roughly the same weekend in early April. Start planning now!

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  13. It is somewhat embarrassing to me that it sometimes takes the strength of others to get me to act… to say no, or intervene when someone is doing wrong by another… I feel we have grown a callous- we blistered the first time we experienced injustice then the callous was formed. Thanks for the reminder! I want to go to Hortlandia! Love the Rhododendron stenopetalum 'Linearifolium'… will see if RSBG will get in their catalog!

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    1. Calloused, I fear you are right. I mean we all see people living on the streets and we can just drive by and go on with our lives. But these are unprecedented times and you sound like you're up for the challenge. Hortlandia comes around every spring... you should make plans to come!

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  14. All of the above comments said it way better than I could. I've been doing what I can to preserve what mental health I've got left, which is not much. The garden always helps. Some of my best friends are plants. Others are those who care for plants.

    NIce to see a pic of Jerry, always dressed the coolest, including socks!

    Must try to make it to one of those Hortlandias--they look great! Very hard to get away to go anywhere.

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    1. I'm seeing a future Hortlandia with the whole California contingent here... it could be loads of fun!

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  15. I, too, am one who says no. Thanks for the refreshing break your posts supply amidst the chaos.

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  16. Finally made it to Portland on a Hortlandia weekend, and then didn't go! Too many things to do in too short of a time. And, Hortlandia would have been something I wanted to do more than the others in the family. So, we did a couple of things that all 4 of us could enjoy. Loved your comments about saying no. We are traveling to Scotland this summer. I will have a chance to say no! Take care.

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    1. Scotland, wow, sounds like a great adventure! Hortlandia next year...

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  17. Thank you!

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  18. I've been following you for a number of years and I LOVE all the plant pix as they make me sooo happy, specially in these times. I love learning of new sites to visit locally and in the PNW!! I too totally appreciated your opening comments and plan to also to say no !!!!

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  19. It was so nice to briefly see everyone again. That was a tough weekend for me. But, the lure of the plants and the people... Despite my vow NOT to buy any plants due to an uncertain future, I did end up buying several from Cistus and Xera. There is a certain promise, a hope, in bringing home plants for the garden. The other message that I want to point out is that we are not alone. Never forget the power of community, the value of friendship. It is there.

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